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So pups aren't really thought of as gendered. In our world, in the West, up through the Victorian era, kids of all genders often wore dresses until somewhere between 4-6. No reason to put a kid in trousers if you needed to change his diaper every 2 hours! In the omegaverse west, unisex child fashions extend up to 10-12 years of age. Gender-neutral pronouns are used. "Gender" starts with puberty.
So pups aren't really thought of as gendered. In our world, in the West, up through the Victorian era, kids of all genders often wore dresses until somewhere between 4-6. No reason to put a kid in trousers if you needed to change his diaper every 2 hours! In the omegaverse west, unisex child fashions extend up to 10-12 years of age. Gender-neutral pronouns are used. "Gender" starts with puberty.


== Being Transgender ==
Which means that transgender kids often have an easier time coming out as their correct gender. Even if they're part of the 2/3rds of kids with a visible gender from birth, it was still only visible to people who were seeing them undressed. And even those bodies can be somewhat ambiguous! Everybody knows someone who was assigned a gender as a baby, and had a different puberty. Culturally, people aren't going to comment if you state you're a guy. Your family might comment, and puberty can still make things difficult, but it isn't a political issue in the way it is here.
Which means that transgender kids often have an easier time coming out as their correct gender. Even if they're part of the 2/3rds of kids with a visible gender from birth, it was still only visible to people who were seeing them undressed. And even those bodies can be somewhat ambiguous! Everybody knows someone who was assigned a gender as a baby, and had a different puberty. Culturally, people aren't going to comment if you state you're a guy. Your family might comment, and puberty can still make things difficult, but it isn't a political issue in the way it is here.


== Being Transdynamic ==
Being trans-DYNAMIC is a different issue. (As is being gender-nonconforming.)
Being trans-DYNAMIC is a different issue. (As is being gender-nonconforming.)


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Dynamic IS, however, extremely culturally important. Unlike with pups and gender, knowing the dynamic of a potential partner or rival can be vital. At some points in the past, different dynamic-gender combinations had distinct fashions. In the 20th century this became a lot less common in the west, though looser tops for male omegas (often with columns of pouches that small pups could be carried in to nurse) still show up. (Bras might not be necessary, but tight shirts CHAFE.)
Dynamic IS, however, extremely culturally important. Unlike with pups and gender, knowing the dynamic of a potential partner or rival can be vital. At some points in the past, different dynamic-gender combinations had distinct fashions. In the 20th century this became a lot less common in the west, though looser tops for male omegas (often with columns of pouches that small pups could be carried in to nurse) still show up. (Bras might not be necessary, but tight shirts CHAFE.)


In my world, there are still different titles and pronouns for various gender-dynamic combinations, and introducing yourself (or your companions) with the correct title allows people to properly categorize you. If you DON'T want to be 'properly' categorized ... that can be an issue. 'Lying' about your dynamic is seen very negatively - as a way of taking advantage of others. Stereotypes still exist, sexism and dynamism still exist, gender and dynamic-roles still exist.
In my world, there are still different [[honorifics|titles]] and [[pronouns]] for various gender-dynamic combinations, and introducing yourself (or your companions) with the correct title allows people to properly categorize you. If you DON'T want to be 'properly' categorized ... that can be an issue. 'Lying' about your dynamic is seen very negatively - as a way of taking advantage of others. Stereotypes still exist, sexism and dynamism still exist, gender and dynamic-roles still exist.


Family structure and partnered relationships are a bit more flexible than in our world. Litters are large, and it helps to have something larger than a 'nuclear family' to support them. Non-child-producing relationships are useful - they often raise some of the pups of a pack, or financially and emotionally support those who are. Still, there are 'right' ways to have a relationship. And there's a HIERARCHY of relationships, with male alpha/female omega, and alpha/beta/omega, at the top. 'Pretending' to be in a more prestigious relationship type is deeply frowned upon.
[[groups|Family structure]] and [[relationships|partnered relationships]] are a bit more flexible than in our world. Litters are large, and it helps to have something larger than a 'nuclear family' to support them. Non-child-producing relationships are useful - they often raise some of the pups of a pack, or financially and emotionally support those who are. Still, there are 'right' ways to have a relationship. And there's a HIERARCHY of relationships, with male alpha/female omega, and alpha/beta/omega, at the top. 'Pretending' to be in a more prestigious relationship type is deeply frowned upon.
 
If the relationship is higher status when recognizing the transdynamic person's dynamic, people are assumed to be faking, seeking status, or seeking attention. If the relationship is lower status when recognizing their dynamic, people may be accused of avoiding responsibilities/being immature.
 
[[Heats]]/[[ruts]] are brought up as 'proof' that no one can avoid their biological realities. The idea of someone being a beta while they can't form [[bonds|pack bonds]] is seen as ridiculous. (Erasing all the betas who CAN'T form bonds for various reasons.) Most transdynamic people still keep their dynamic private, but activism is in the early stages.
 
== Being Agender/Adynamic ==
Agender and adynamic people are ALSO less accepted in the omegaverse than they are on Earth. The idea is hard for many people to wrap their heads around.
 
There isn't a strong concept of a binary for people to be outside of - there's a spectrum, with almost everyone somewhere on it - so 'nonbinary' isn't a thing. Genderfluidity has some acceptance, and crossdressing isn't particularly shocking. Multigender people usually try to fit themselves into epicene or genderfluid boxes, despite how poorly that may work. But people with no concept of gender, who find that no gender fits them, or who can't define themselves using gender as a framework, find there is little way to express that identity, or even define it to themselves.
 
Fluidity, plurality, and lack of dynamic are even harder to express. You still have the instincts and biological cycles, right? Those don't just go away if you reject them! Some people have found acceptance in the transdynamic community, but others have found that their experiences are seen as threatening, with transdynamic people fearing their own identities will be invalidated by these vague and fluid ones.
 
== Being Gender/Dynamic Non-Conforming ==
 
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